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"MAN IN THE MIRROR."

Namtira Bwala; the girl who was bullied at LBS There's a video making the rounds on social media that has sparked outrage among internet users, and rightfully so. In the video, a girl can be seen standing helpless while being slapped repeatedly by another girl. I'm not sure what the context is: are they classmates? Or what seems more likely, one is a senior student and the other is a junior student. Now none of the scenes above justifies the actions taken against that dear girl, but there are slightly nuanced thoughts in these different situations. If they're classmates, well, the sad actions in that video mirror a community with a highly weakened conscience. There are so many videos of people being beaten to an inch of their life and stomped on while bystanders watch or cheer on the act (I don't mean videos where a person is caught in some crime and meets 'jungle justice'—that isn't good either). If they're not classmates and it's a case of one stud
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𝗪𝗛𝗘𝗡 𝗣𝗘𝗢𝗣𝗟𝗘 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗨𝗣.

Here are two things that you may find to be true in this life and probably helpful. First, as surely as you live on this planet, there are some natural human tendencies that you must consciously bridle. Some of them are not necessarily evil but watching out for them and exercising restraint over them will help you live a happier and more productive life. One good example, is moderating your feelings towards those who leave your church, fellowship or group—whatever it is. It's not uncommon to feel a pinch of hurt or betrayal when someone leaves—even if you are not the leader of the group they left—it can feel hurtful. These facts may help you: If someone left your group, it may not mean they've missed God's plan for their lives. Now, there are times when people are supposed to stay connected to certain other people and ministries in a lifelong sense; I'm not talking about that kind of case here. People who leave your church don't have to become your enemy overnight.

WHEN YOU HAVE THIS FEELING

If you have a brother or sister, someone, who you FEEL is missing it; where 'missing it' can range from doing wrong stuff to simply omitting some better approach, what should you do?  ONE: Is the person someone whom you have some oversight on or a degree of relational proximity to that premises the attempted correction (e.g a member you're serving over, a mentee, a close friend)? Maybe you could reach out to them and talk about things and instruct them, if necessary.  TWO: Is the person a mere acquaintance or someone over whom you may not have such speaking access to or influence over?  Or is it such a situation that even when you do have some access to the person, you may not be the best person to discuss the matter with them?  What do you do?  Pray for them earnestly. They keep coming to your mind every now and then, ba? How they could be better or achieve more if they just did XYZ or stopped doing JKL, or just became a little MNO...? Yes, pray for them.  Pray the Pauline

Good Intentions: Bad Outcomes.

  Let me attempt to 'reconstruct' how I imagine things must have happened within Christendom from the little Church history I know. Let's jump back to just after all the actual 12 apostles of Jesus have been killed off and their disciples are running things, for lack of a better expression, at the middle to end parts of the first century. The writings of the apostles had begun to be collated and copies of the collection were available in several Christian communities. Even though the canon of what is now referred to as the New Testament, hadn't been finally decided on, copies of NT 'bible' must have been relatively available to the believers. Then, various heresies were already thriving in the church in various communities (gnosticism,  Arianism, Montanism, to mention but three). I've studied a few of these movements, some were offshoots of genuine men who misunderstood or had a different interpretation of the message of the apostles, others were outrightly

INVITES, PAGE LIKE & BAD BLOOD

If your experience is anything like mine, you get two to three invitations to like pages and join groups, every other day. Again, if your tendency is anything like mine, you like to check notifications and clear out the red indicator on the app when you have time. So how do you respond to invitations to like pages from friends? Some you know both offline & online, others you don't. If you invite me to like a page. Here's what usually happens. 1. If I'm not interested in what the page is about, I won't like the page (put cosmetics & make up pages, sports betting, your version of akpos joke page, your house fellowship page, etc here). I won't LIKE what I don't like and probably won't need. *It may be useful to invite people who may share the value of the page, if it's not a general use item. That first base of genuine likers can help find the others. 2. If its a personal page about you different from your account, with maybe your nickname, I won

EVERYONE SOUNDS SMART TILL... (Objections to Christianity)

 EVERYONE SOUNDS SMART TILL... (Objections to Christianity)  From my last days in Secondary School in the early 2000s, I began to investigate the intellectual side of my faith versus the logic of other worldviews. In those my personal studies that had to do with the intellectual side of my faith, I did something I may not necessarily recommend. I exposed my beliefs to the most brutal intellectual oppositions I could find. I also studied some major religions. I didn't want to use materials by outsiders when doing these studies—outsiders usually make a certain kind of mistake when studying to disprove a faith system—I tried to consult materials of practitioners. I don't recommend the method because not everyone may stick through to investigate the claims of a source, or have solid background to discern misinformation. But I knew that truth, if it was actually true would have been shown to be consistent.  The good thing I got from those times was, I received vaccination to many wi

Friday Recommendation Freebie!

Photo by  Daria Shevtsova  on  Unsplash Hey there! Welcome to my thought dump-- some call it blog! Rather than cloud the Facebook post with too many links, I have decided to use this blog post as landing space for other offers you can get from the Author. First there is a 4 and a half page short story, that I think you'd thoroughly enjoy. Click  here . Don't forget to drop a feedback on Facebook after reading. It's a 12 minutes read, max, that is, if you're a lazy reader like me. To get today's book, The Blood Moons: Wrath of Elijah, click  here . It costs $1.99 that is about N730 to get the e-copy. If you're old school and love paperbacks, no problem, for $8.25 (approximately N3,000), you can purchase it. If you're like me, e-book is fast to get and enough! I know you're here mainly for the freebie but just in case you want to check out other equally riveting works by the same author, see links below. 1.  Mewranters: Attack of the se