Random Reflections Of A Sound Mind.

  Gentlemen, When your female friend gets married, no matter how close you guys were, or what you shared, respect her husband, refrain from too much Okra soup , so as to not allow your destiny to be sliding into, building a tent and living in her DM. Even when the last thing on your mind is physical or emotional intimacy, it's advisable to keep non-essential private interactions with a married friend at reasonable minimum or just the essentials—you can't be chatting up a married friend, every other day for long periods na— your mother didn't give birth to a sheep!   I guess this applies to females and their married male friends too.  This is not suggesting that married people should drop or totally block out all previous friends of opposite gender, this is saying; you can't be chatting them up or relating like that, as it used to be. This post is inspired by what I observed somewhere on IG: a young man's convo on a married woman